SSH Tunnel - does not appear to be using tunnel for all connections

I've been testing out ssh tunnel feature for noSQL. My setup is as follows

LAPTOP -> JumpServer -> Mongo

By that i mean you am using a jumpserver to tunnel to and from their port forwarding to the actual mongo server. However from what I'm seeing in the logs. it appears the initial connection from noSQL is going thru the tunnel I think to do a discovery? the problem is once it has the replica members it then tries to connect without using the tunnel, which of course won't work because there is no direct access to Mongo from the Laptop.

For the first example i'm on public internet which means there is no access to the Mongo server directly we must go thru the jumpserver. Here are the logs from the Mongo server:

2019-08-01T00:03:22.184-0400 I NETWORK  [listener] connection accepted from 10.1.0.5:44636 #11042 (365 connections now open)
2019-08-01T00:03:22.285-0400 W NETWORK  [conn11042] no SSL certificate provided by peer
2019-08-01T00:03:22.321-0400 I NETWORK  [conn11042] received client metadata from 10.1.0.5:44636 conn11042: { driver: { name: "nodejs", version: "3.1.7-1" }, os: { type: "Darwin", name: "darwin", architecture: "x64", version: "18.6.0" }, platform: "Node.js v10.2.0, LE, mongodb-core: 3.1.6", application: { name: "NoSQLBoosterV5_22485.805" } }

2019-08-01T00:03:22.355-0400 I NETWORK [conn11042] end connection 10.1.0.5:44636 (364 connections now open)Notice the first incoming connection from 10.0.1.5 (jumpserver) where i assume it performs discovery of the replicaSet. This works and it closes then it should try to connect to each of the members ... but there are no connections the client dialog shows a failure and timeout

23:03:21.463  *** Starting "Connect to SSH Server" ***
{"askForPassword":false,"authMode":2,"keyPath":"/Users/john.polansky/.ssh/id_rsa_XXXXX_john.polansky","passphrase":"","port":22,"server":"ssh01.support.XXXXX.io","username":"john.polansky"} 

23:03:21.656  *** Finished "Connect to SSH Server" 193 ms***
{"askForPassword":false,"authMode":2,"keyPath":"/Users/john.polansky/.ssh/id_rsa_XXXXX_john.polansky","passphrase":"","port":22,"server":"ssh01.support.XXXXX.io","username":"john.polansky"} 

23:03:21.657  *** Starting MongoClient.connect ***
{"options":{"appname":"NoSQLBoosterV5_22485.805","autoReconnect":true,"checkServerIdentity":false,"keepAlive":60000,"minSize":0,"poolSize":0,"promoteLongs":false,"promoteValues":false,"reconnectTries":172800,"socketTimeoutMS":0,"ssl":true,"sslValidate":false,"useNewUrlParser":false},"uri":"mongodb://automation:XXXXX@localhost:58897/?authSource=automation&replicaSet=rs0&ssl=true"} 

23:03:21.658  Topology Opening
{"topologyId":9} 

23:03:21.660  Server Opening
{"address":"localhost:58897","topologyId":45} 

23:03:22.340  Server Description Changed
{"address":"localhost:58897","newDescription":{"address":"localhost:58897","arbiters":[],"hosts":[],"passives":[],"type":"RSPrimary"},"previousDescription":{"address":"localhost:58897","arbiters":[],"hosts":[],"passives":[],"type":"Unknown"},"topologyId":45} 

23:03:22.340  Server Closed
{"address":"localhost:58897","topologyId":45} 

23:03:22.342  Server Opening
{"address":"mongo01.zone1.XXXXX.io:27017","topologyId":46} 

23:03:22.343  Server Opening
{"address":"mongo01.zone2.XXXXX.io:27017","topologyId":47} 

23:03:22.345  Server Opening
{"address":"mongo01.zone3.XXXXX.io:27017","topologyId":48} 

23:03:52.350  Topology Description Changed
{"diff":{"servers":[]},"newDescription":{"servers":[],"setName":"rs0","topologyType":"Unknown"},"previousDescription":{"servers":[],"topologyType":"Unknown"},"topologyId":9} 

23:03:52.350  Topology Closed
{"topologyId":9} 

23:03:52.351  Topology Description Changed
{"diff":{"servers":[]},"newDescription":{"servers":[],"setName":"rs0","topologyType":"Unknown"},"previousDescription":{"servers":[],"setName":"rs0","topologyType":"Unknown"},"topologyId":9} 

23:03:52.351  Topology Closed
{"topologyId":9} 

23:03:52.352  *** Connect Error ***
{"errorLabels":["TransientTransactionError"],"message":"failed to connect to server [mongo01.zone3.XXXXX.io:27017] on first connect [MongoNetworkError: connection 37 to mongo01.zone3.XXXXX.io:27017 timed out]","name":"MongoNetworkError","stack":"MongoNetworkError: failed to connect to server [mongo01.zone3.XXXXX.io:27017] on first connect [MongoNetworkError: connection 37 to mongo01.zone3.XXXXX.io:27017 timed out]\n    at Pool.<anonymous> (/Applications/NoSQLBooster for MongoDB.app/Contents/Resources/app.asar/node_modules/mongodb-core/lib/topologies/server.js:564:11)\n    at Pool.emit (events.js:182:13)\n    at Connection.<anonymous> (/Applications/NoSQLBooster for MongoDB.app/Contents/Resources/app.asar/node_modules/mongodb-core/lib/connection/pool.js:317:12)\n    at Object.onceWrapper (events.js:273:13)\n    at Connection.emit (events.js:182:13)\n    at TLSSocket.<anonymous> (/Applications/NoSQLBooster for MongoDB.app/Contents/Resources/app.asar/node_modules/mongodb-core/lib/connection/connection.js:257:10)\n    at Object.onceWrapper (events.js:273:13)\n    at TLSSocket.emit (events.js:182:13)\n    at TLSSocket.Socket._onTimeout (net.js:445:8)\n    at ontimeout (timers.js:427:11)\n    at tryOnTimeout (timers.js:289:5)\n    at listOnTimeout (timers.js:252:5)\n    at Timer.processTimers (timers.js:212:10)"} 

For this next example I'm connected to the VPN which means my laptop DOES have direct access to Mongo. Here are the same logs for connecting with no changes in the config.

2019-07-31T23:56:14.337-0400 I NETWORK  [listener] connection accepted from 10.1.0.5:44628 #11019 (366 connections now open)
2019-07-31T23:56:14.499-0400 W NETWORK  [conn11019] no SSL certificate provided by peer
2019-07-31T23:56:14.555-0400 I NETWORK  [conn11019] received client metadata from 10.1.0.5:44628 conn11019: { driver: { name: "nodejs", version: "3.1.7-1" }, os: { type: "Darwin", name: "darwin", architecture: "x64", version: "18.6.0" }, platform: "Node.js v10.2.0, LE, mongodb-core: 3.1.6", application: { name: "NoSQLBoosterV5_22485.805" } }
2019-07-31T23:56:14.611-0400 I NETWORK  [conn11019] end connection 10.1.0.5:44628 (365 connections now open)
2019-07-31T23:56:14.668-0400 I NETWORK  [listener] connection accepted from 172.16.0.94:50430 #11020 (366 connections now open)
2019-07-31T23:56:14.723-0400 W NETWORK  [conn11020] no SSL certificate provided by peer
2019-07-31T23:56:14.776-0400 I NETWORK  [conn11020] received client metadata from 172.16.0.94:50430 conn11020: { driver: { name: "nodejs", version: "3.1.7-1" }, os: { type: "Darwin", name: "darwin", architecture: "x64", version: "18.6.0" }, platform: "Node.js v10.2.0, LE, mongodb-core: 3.1.6", application: { name: "NoSQLBoosterV5_22485.805" } }
2019-07-31T23:56:15.167-0400 I ACCESS   [conn11020] Successfully authenticated as principal automation on automation

2019-07-31T23:56:15.462-0400 I NETWORK [conn11020] end connection 172.16.0.94:50430 (365 connections now open)Here you can see the initial connection/discovery come in from 10.0.1.5 which is the jumpserver.

if I look in the logs of the primary mongo you can see the initial connection come in on 10.0.1.5 that is the IP address of the JumpServer which is perfect, it connects and works then u see a follow-up connection to the primary mongo BUT it's from 172.16.0.94 that is my VPN IP address which if I'm right means the subsequent connections are skipping the tunnel and going directly over the VPN to connect to Mongo, and it's successful. Here are the client logs.

23:09:51.662  *** Starting "Connect to SSH Server" *** 
{"askForPassword":false,"authMode":2,"keyPath":"/Users/john.polansky/.ssh/id_rsa_XXXXX_john.polansky","passphrase":"","port":22,"server":"ssh01.support.XXXXX.io","username":"john.polansky"}  

23:09:51.864  *** Finished "Connect to SSH Server" 202 ms*** 
{"askForPassword":false,"authMode":2,"keyPath":"/Users/john.polansky/.ssh/id_rsa_XXXXX_john.polansky","passphrase":"","port":22,"server":"ssh01.support.XXXXX.io","username":"john.polansky"}  

23:09:51.865  *** Starting MongoClient.connect *** 
{"options":{"appname":"NoSQLBoosterV5_22485.805","autoReconnect":true,"checkServerIdentity":false,"keepAlive":60000,"minSize":0,"poolSize":0,"promoteLongs":false,"promoteValues":false,"reconnectTries":172800,"socketTimeoutMS":0,"ssl":true,"sslValidate":false,"useNewUrlParser":false},"uri":"mongodb://automation:XXXXX@localhost:59313/?authSource=automation&replicaSet=rs0&ssl=true"}  

23:09:51.866  Topology Opening 
{"topologyId":10}  

23:09:51.867  Server Opening 
{"address":"localhost:59313","topologyId":50}  

23:09:52.843  Server Description Changed 
{"address":"localhost:59313","newDescription":{"address":"localhost:59313","arbiters":[],"hosts":[],"passives":[],"type":"RSPrimary"},"previousDescription":{"address":"localhost:59313","arbiters":[],"hosts":[],"passives":[],"type":"Unknown"},"topologyId":50}  

23:09:52.843  Server Closed 
{"address":"localhost:59313","topologyId":50}  

23:09:52.845  Server Opening 
{"address":"mongo01.zone1.XXXXX.io:27017","topologyId":51}  

23:09:52.846  Server Opening 
{"address":"mongo01.zone2.XXXXX.io:27017","topologyId":52}  

23:09:52.848  Server Opening 
{"address":"mongo01.zone3.XXXXX.io:27017","topologyId":53}  

23:09:53.063  Server Description Changed 
{"address":"mongo01.zone1.XXXXX.io:27017","newDescription":{"address":"mongo01.zone1.XXXXX.io:27017","arbiters":[],"hosts":[],"passives":[],"type":"RSPrimary"},"previousDescription":{"address":"mongo01.zone1.XXXXX.io:27017","arbiters":[],"hosts":[],"passives":[],"type":"Unknown"},"topologyId":51}  

23:09:53.064  Joined 
"primary" {"$clusterTime":{"clusterTime":{"_bsontype":"Timestamp","high_":1564632592,"low_":1},"signature":{"hash":{"_bsontype":"Binary","buffer":{"type":"Buffer","data":[91,73,25,182,138,249,25,114,243,222,16,219,234,81,133,195,169,209,119,177]},"position":20,"sub_type":0},"keyId":{"_bsontype":"Long","high_":1549852830,"low_":1}}},"electionId":{"_bsontype":"ObjectID","id":{"type":"Buffer","data":[127,255,255,255,0,0,0,0,0,0,0,44]}},"hosts":["mongo01.zone1.XXXXX.io:27017","mongo01.zone2.XXXXX.io:27017","mongo01.zone3.XXXXX.io:27017"],"ismaster":true,"lastWrite":{"lastWriteDate":"2019-08-01T04:09:52.000Z","majorityOpTime":{"t":44,"ts":{"_bsontype":"Timestamp","high_":1564632592,"low_":1}},"majorityWriteDate":"2019-08-01T04:09:52.000Z","opTime":{"t":44,"ts":{"_bsontype":"Timestamp","high_":1564632592,"low_":1}}},"localTime":"2019-08-01T04:09:53.035Z","logicalSessionTimeoutMinutes":30,"maxBsonObjectSize":16777216,"maxMessageSizeBytes":48000000,"maxWireVersion":6,"maxWriteBatchSize":100000,"me":"mongo01.zone1.XXXXX.io:27017","minWireVersion":0,"ok":1,"operationTime":{"_bsontype":"Timestamp","high_":1564632592,"low_":1},"primary":"mongo01.zone1.XXXXX.io:27017","readOnly":false,"secondary":false,"setName":"rs0","setVersion":7} 

23:09:53.064  Topology Description Changed 
{"diff":{"servers":[{"address":"mongo01.zone1.XXXXX.io:27017","from":"Unknown","to":"RSPrimary"}]},"newDescription":{"servers":